My mom lives on a small island (in BC, Canada) where no official TableTop Day events were happening and she didn’t really have any games so she looked at the used stores and found Alias, Malarky, Rummy-O, Overturn, Where in the World are you?, and Shogun. These added to what I brought with me Cthulu Fluxx, Gloom, and Cards Against Humanity. In addition we used an electronic version of Smallworld on my laptop, and I made my own version of Qwirkle. One of the highlights was her beating me in Cthulu Fluxx with Insane Nightmares. After yesterday she has changed her mind on gaming and is going to get other people on the island to PLAY MORE GAMES!
My eldest grew up at the gaming table, from a baby sitting in her little seat by the table as we rolled. Over the years she sat at the table, chatting with the players and asking questions; giving advice when she was asked what would she do if a goblin came running at her with a raised club, she rolled dice and wanted to know if it was a good roll or not. As, the gaming group begin to shrink in size due to work, education and other life events it was only a mater of time before she became a regular at the table. She started at the age of 9 and still gaming strong at the age of 19.
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“Basically, what I do is I try to celebrate women. I try to play and hype up female-fronted games that I think rule. I like to read comics about ladies….I just try and put the focus on women as often as possible.”
Since my regular game night has been taken over by pathfinder, I haven’t been playing as many boardgames as I would like. So I’m going to try a solo game of Eldritch Horror. Never tried it solitaire before, should be interesting. :)
Picked Diane Stanley in hopes that her cultist ability helps me survive the onslaught of Azathoth better.
Now think of how many of those female characters and protagonists are oversexed, created for the male gaze, or put in an inactive damsel role for the plot of the game. Representation matters. A Study last year proved that exposure to tv shows increased the self esteem of young white boys and markedly decreased the confidence and self esteem of girls across the board (and we haven’t even started on the representation of characters of color and the effect it has on children’s self perception).
Video games are a different media, and even more concerning if representation metrics are changing how our kids think of themselves. Especially knowing that 67% of American Households have video game consoles and 91% of Children play video games regularly, how do you think the portrayal (and lack of portrayals) of women and girls in these games is affecting little girls – or influencing how little boys view their importance and/or influence over them?
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I see posts all of the time about gender and gaming. Ya’ll who say that “girls don’t game” need to hush and listen for a moment.
This is my Mimal. She’s my BFF. These pictures were taken last summer, they’re of her playing the Nintendo Entertainment System that she bought when it came out and was being popularized in America. She was a stay at home mom and she thought that this gaming system would be awesome for her family (my Pipaw, my Uncle Joey, and my Mom) at night when they had game time. She used to play during the day when her kids were at school. She used to play Tetris (which, as a result of, my Mom is wicked at) and other games for this system. I
This is her, at 62, kicking MY ass at Super Mario Bros. When I was growing up I’d go to her house, eat SpaghettiOs and play this same game. I couldn’t beat the castle worlds. She did it for me. She taught me the places where I could find hidden 1UPs, world jumps, and stars. When I was young she patiently waited as I learned the mechanics of the game. When I got older she gave me guidance on the finer skills, like not jumping off a ledge. Mimal can find the turtle on the stairs and get like a bazillion extra lives. It’s crazy.
So, I’ve ranted that she’s good at the game but I would like to make one thing clear. She has fun when she’s playing this game. To her, it meant family time, alone/decompression time, and a challenge for her to explore and conquer. She’s a gamer because she likes to game.
This woman is a gamer. This woman is my Mimal. So if you think that women can’t be gamers you just think on the fact that she’s been beating Bowser’s ass for two generations. And she’s been loving every minute of it.